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Our background largely determines what we will become in personality and more importantly in self-esteem. Where do feelings of worthlessness come from? Many come from our families, since more than 80% of our waking hours up to the age of 18 are spent under their direct influence. We are who we are because of where we've been. We build our own brands of self-esteem from four ingredients: fate, the positive things life offers, the negative things life offers and our own decisions about how to respond to fate, the positives and the negatives. Neither fate nor decisions can be determined by other people in our own life. No one can change fate. We can control our thinking and therefore our decisions in life.
我们的经历在很大程度上决定了本人的个性，而其中最重要的部分是自尊。那么这种无用的自我感觉是从何而来的呢？其实大多是来自我们的家庭，应为在我们18岁之前，我们清醒着的时间80%以上都在家中度过，置身于家庭的直接影响之下。我们的出生决定了我们将会成为哪一种人。我们独有的自尊由两个不同的方面形成：命运，包括生活中遇到的机遇和挫折；以及我们决定如何应对命运，当然也包括机遇和挫折。在我们生活中，其他人既不能控制我们的命运，也不能改变我们的决定。没有人可以改变命运。但是在我们的一生中，我们能控制我们的思想从而控制自己的决定。